Today Heather sent me a link to
this article by Ali Edwards.
"Can you identify a single word that sums up what you want for yourself in 2009? It can be something tangible or intangible. It could be a thought or a feeling or an emotion. It can be singular or plural. The key is to find something that has personal meaning for you. This is not your mother's word or your spouse's word or your child's word - this is YOUR word.
One little word can have big meaning in your life if you allow yourself to be open to the possibilities. And here's one thing that is totally interesting: sometimes a word will pop into your brain and it will not make any sense to you right now. Give it some time. Let it percolate a bit. I have often found that our hearts speak to us in very unique ways. Maybe this is a word you need to hear but just aren't ready for it yet. Again, be open to the possibilities."So.....the word that I chose for this year is

I think this year especially, our world is full of possibilities. We may or may not move, get new jobs, quit jobs, uproot, multiply & replenish the earth, become famous, become super poor, get super rich, get discovered, gain weight, lose weight....i mean the possibilities are endless. And I think it will be really nice for me to focus on a "possibility" rather than any sort of "impossibility".
So many things are Possible this year, and in effort to be open to change and re-structure my need for structure and "a plan" all the time, I think focusing on all the things that are a possibility I'll be more flexible and less apprehensive about change.
You know, I'm not sure if it was subconscious from reading "possibilities" over and over in the last paragraph, but it was the second word that popped into my head as I was making my list of One Word Themes for the year. Some of my runner up words were:
Unconditional
Arise
Choose
Here's the
list of words that came from years past comments.
I'm not um, a challenger usually, but I LOVE this idea so much and have been talking to friends this morning asking if they want to join me--so I'd like to extend the "challenge" to anyone else who wants to get a "just one little word" theme for 2009.
In conjunction with my one word, I've been thinking of all the other things I want to accomplish this year. I am NOT a typical new years resolutions kind of girl. I mean, I am sure I've always set them, but like 99% of the world I forget about them the next week, and it's nearly impossible to gain momentum again. BUT, I have a feeling this year might be different.
Christmas kind of changed my life. I Loooooooove Seth, but somehow over Christmas break I fell in love with him all over again. Seth said he likes it when I'm at my house with my family because Mom tells me how much I should be appreciating Seth and then I'm all ga-ga about him for days. I like to think that it's just seeing him in my very most comfortable environment that I realize how amazing he is and all of the "possibilities" we have together.
Either way, and aside from Seth, I found myself noticing everyone in our families with new eyes. I noticed the little things everyone did, the little kindnesses, the small happinesses, the minute details of people's personalities that made such a difference in small circumstances. It made me want to change my life in small ways, to become a little more conscious of my day-to day and even minute-to-minute interactions. It made me want to notice the things people love and be able to remember and use it later to make them happy. It made me want to focus on the benefit of the doubt, giving everyone the "possibility" of having the best of intentions. I'm so excited to begin 2009 with new eyes.
I don't want to embarrass my friend Sarah, but this morning I read
this post of hers, and it changed my life yet again.
Really, the smallest sentimental gifts are often the most treasured. It made me want to explore the world of usable handmade and sentimental items. I may never crochet or knit or scrapbook very well, but just like the people in the little village from the Three Amigos, "We can sew!" (unfortunately I won't have Ned Nederlander inspiring me with "Sew, very old one! Sew like the wind!") AND, this Christmas, whenever Seth and I were talking about gifts, one of the first things that came to my mind was "Cozy Blanket" for everyone. Everyone needs a cozy blanket, even if they live in the hot desert! Aside from gifts, I'm hoping this year that I can really light a fire on my sewing and re-start my efforts on "Quilts by Lizzy" (the etsy shop that I created and didn't ever fill with anything...oops).
Think of the possibilities! :)